[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/kdyz-se-dite-vzteka\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/kdyz-se-dite-vzteka\/","headline":"Kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1","name":"Kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1","description":"Nejprve se sna\u017e\u00edte d\u00edt\u011bti domluvit, uti\u0161it jej, ale v\u011bt\u0161inou nakonec vzd\u00e1te n\u00e1kupy d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e jste za\u010dali a t\u00e1hnete vzpouzej\u00edc\u00ed se d\u00edt\u011b pry\u010d. Za v\u00e1mi se d\u00edv\u00e1 spousta zv\u011bdav\u00fdch o\u010d\u00ed a spousta z nich krout\u00ed hlavami nad t\u00edm, \u017ee nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1te v\u00fdchovu a vy jste p\u0159i tom rud\u00e1 studem i vztekem z\u00e1rove\u0148. Zd\u00e1","datePublished":"2019-12-09","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"gotech.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a363929_w3377_t1576602541.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a363929_w3377_t1576602541.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/kdyz-se-dite-vzteka\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":601,"articleBody":"Nejprve se sna\u017e\u00edte d\u00edt\u011bti domluvit, uti\u0161it jej, ale v\u011bt\u0161inou nakonec vzd\u00e1te n\u00e1kupy d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e jste za\u010dali a t\u00e1hnete vzpouzej\u00edc\u00ed se d\u00edt\u011b pry\u010d. Za v\u00e1mi se d\u00edv\u00e1 spousta zv\u011bdav\u00fdch o\u010d\u00ed a spousta z nich krout\u00ed hlavami nad t\u00edm, \u017ee nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1te v\u00fdchovu a vy jste p\u0159i tom rud\u00e1 studem i vztekem z\u00e1rove\u0148. Zd\u00e1 se v\u00e1m to pov\u011bdom\u00e9?  Tato nebo podobn\u00e1 situace potr\u00e1p\u00ed nejednu maminku.Obdob\u00ed vzdoruV\u011bt\u0161ina odborn\u00e9 literatury uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee obdob\u00ed vzdoru p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed mezi druh\u00fdm a t\u0159et\u00edm rokem. D\u00edt\u011b je n\u00e1ladov\u00e9, tvrdohlav\u00e9, odmlouv\u00e1 a vztek\u00e1 se. P\u0159i t\u011bchto z\u00e1chvatech kope kolem sebe, h\u00e1z\u00ed v\u011bcmi, nez\u0159\u00eddka sebou pl\u00e1cne a hystericky je\u010d\u00ed. Pro\u010d k t\u011bmto z\u00e1chvat\u016fm vlastn\u011b doch\u00e1z\u00ed? D\u00edt\u011b si za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat samo sebe a chce se prosadit.N\u011bco jsem si o tomto t\u00e9matu p\u0159e\u010detla a za\u010dala jsem se p\u0159ipravovat, \u017ee jednoho dne m\u016f\u017ee toto obdob\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edt. Jak\u00e9 bylo ale moje p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed, kdy\u017e p\u0159i\u0161lo o mnoho d\u0159\u00edve a to kdy\u017e bylo m\u00e9mu milovan\u00e9mu d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tku lehce pod rok. Sotva se nau\u010dila sed\u011bt, musela jsem b\u00fdt hned ve st\u0159ehu, aby se nezranila. Jak\u00e9koliv NE, NESM\u00cd\u0160 nebo NECH TO (jakkoliv m\u00edrn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno) vedlo ke vzteku, prohnut\u00ed se do luku a pad\u00e1n\u00ed bezhlav\u011b na podlahu  . Kdy\u017e to vid\u011bla jedna moje zn\u00e1m\u00e1, \u0159ekla mi, \u017ee tohle u sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed nevid\u011bla, \u017ee obdob\u00edm vzdoru nepro\u0161ly. Jej\u00ed d\u011bti jsou u\u017e ale dosp\u011bl\u00e9 a podle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru si ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b projde t\u00edmto obdob\u00edm, jen n\u011bkter\u00e9 dejme tomu s v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm klidem. Lidsk\u00fd mozek je geni\u00e1ln\u00ed a dok\u00e1\u017ee \u010dasem vyt\u011bsnit nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 situace a ponechat si vzpom\u00ednky „lep\u0161\u00ed“. A kdo by si cht\u011bl pamatovat vztekl\u00e9 sc\u00e9ny. Rad\u011bji budete vzpom\u00ednat na to, jak\u00e9 bylo va\u0161e d\u00edtko usm\u011bvav\u00e9 slun\u00ed\u010dko a jak brzy za\u010dalo chodit. Proto si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee nejsou f\u00e9r vy\u010d\u00edtav\u00e9 pohledy ciz\u00edch lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1s soud\u00ed, jak\u00e1 jste matka, kdy\u017e nezvl\u00e1dnete jednu z t\u011bchto vypjat\u00fdch situac\u00ed.Co tedy rad\u00ed odborn\u00edci? Zachovat klid. Ale jak, je p\u0159ece tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 se ve stresu uklidnit. Mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkomu pom\u016f\u017ee se nejprve nadechnout anebo napo\u010d\u00edtat do p\u011bti. M\u016f\u017eete zkusit odv\u00e9st pozornost na n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. Za\u010d\u00edt k\u0159i\u010det taky, aby d\u00edt\u011b vid\u011blo sv\u016fj obraz, aby pochopilo, \u017ee t\u00edmhle chov\u00e1n\u00edm ni\u010deho nedos\u00e1hne. D\u00edt\u011b ignorovat, dokud nep\u0159estane. Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b, zkusila jsem toho v\u00edce a nic moc nezab\u00edr\u00e1. Jakmile upadne do toho sv\u00e9ho amoku, nic jin\u00e9ho nevn\u00edm\u00e1. V\u011bt\u0161inou zabere, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed, \u017ee si z toho nic ned\u011bl\u00e1m, jen se na ni v klidu kouk\u00e1m. Po chv\u00edli ji to p\u0159estane bavit a jde si zase hr\u00e1t. Bohu\u017eel na n\u011bkter\u00fdch m\u00edstech je tato taktika neprovediteln\u00e1. T\u0159eba u\u017e v tom zmi\u0148ovan\u00e9m obchod\u011b, kdy se sna\u017e\u00edte co nejrychleji zmizet v\u0161em z o\u010d\u00ed. P\u0159eji mamink\u00e1m v podobn\u00e9 situaci mnoho zdaru a pevn\u00e9 nervy.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1","item":"https:\/\/www.gotech.cz\/kdyz-se-dite-vzteka\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]